It's better to be.....

It is better to be rejected or reject once instead of  getting into  a relationship making promises dreaming about the future give each other hope that you will be there for each other but reality is no one stay same for so long people get eventually tired and change.

How To Make Yourself Happy?

How to make yourself happy?

The big question mark stands in front of you.

There are several question comes in your mind. Like…..

What make you satisfied?

How can I ignore things that I don’t like?

Why I become so irritated?

Why I can’t handle my anger?

Why I become jealous when I see people around me happy?

Why God make me un-happy?

There are more questions but the answer is vanished.

When I ask question people around me that what makes you happy.

In reply!

“They just smiled and look at me for few minutes and said…..there are lots of things.”

I said Ok tell me some

And I’m shocked with the answer

“That shopping, watching movie, using phone make them happy.”

After this session I just think “If we don’t have these options then?”

Ahhh again a “Question mark”

I think that we make our life difficult by own choice. We consider shopping, movies, expensive phones etc make us happy but that is not true in my opinion and yes we all have different opinions.

 As you can see, things don’t make you happy. It is your perception and the meaning that you give to those “things” that make you happy. This is why people in 3rd world countries can experience happiness while you have celebrities who have everything and end up committing suicide. When you make the mistake of thinking that happiness comes from external things, it will be hard to stay happy. Only you can make yourself happy.

So just focus on that thing you have and ignore those things you don’t have. I don’t say that to stop try to fulfill your wishing list. You can do with happy faces because stress of getting things makes you depressed.

The knowledge of happiness you get when you letting situations go with flow. It is good to get your dreams come true but never ever sacrifices your happiness.

At the End time never stop for anybody, SO to be happy makes your future happier and happiness also good for skin…